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Hi Reader, Welcome to this edition of the Maps of the Mind newsletter. 🍄 How We Meet What Happens The last couple of newsletters have been about setting. The space. The person in the room. There's another part that matters just as much. How we meet what's happening. ⸻ As my mum’s in palliative care, I’ve been seeing this up close. She knows she’s moving toward the end of her life.Toward that final transition. And what’s struck me is the way she’s approaching it. Not with panic. Or constant...
Hi Reader, Welcome to this edition of the Maps of the Mind newsletter. 🍄 The Person in the Room Some of the nurses who come to see my mum feel different the moment they walk into the room. They slow down.They give their full attention when they ask a question.They patiently listen to the answer. Others… it’s more of a checklist. Pain?Bowels?Medication?Next.It feels like they're just ticking boxes, getting the job done. Same job. Same tasks.Very different experience. It’s not just what they...
Hi Reader, It’s been a little while since I last wrote. I've had other priorities in this period whilst we’ve been figuring out carer schedules, nurse visits, and syringe drivers. Alongside that, I’ve been learning what it actually means to show up for someone day to day. 🍄 Holding Space (At Home) Lately, I’ve been thinking about how life can prepare us in ways we don’t expect. For years, I’ve sat with people in altered states. Holding space, watching breath, listening without trying to fix....